Okay, so you know what I absolutely hate? People who pretend to be someone else. Like when they act one way around you but a total different way around other people. You know what I'm talking about......the guy who's all sweet and kind to you when everyone else says he's an ass. You then discard they're opinion of him because he was really sweet to you, but then you end up around him when he's around other people and he turns into that jerk that you've heard so much about. So who do you believe? The kind guy? Or the jerk? Or when they tell you one thing and you hear another....it just erks me. Why? Why can't they be themselves? Would it ruin something? Does it go agains some code of honor? I mean what is the big fricking deal?